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Why do men date Transgender Women?

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I don’t think that there’s a general explanation for one’s dating preference.  I’m just going to list the reasons that men told me why they date a transgender woman like me.  These reasons are solely from the perspective of the guys I’ve dated.

If you are a man who likes dating transgender women, please know that some of the things below may not apply to you.  Don’t attack me if you will find this inaccurate.  I’m a Blogger, not a sociologist.

Why do men date Transgender Women like ME?

Let me preface this by warning you that I will be brutally honest.  I won’t hide the reasons. Also, some of them may not be safe for work so…  it will all be up to you if you will receive THEIR truth.

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Best of both Worlds

Most of the men I went out with told me that what they like about dating a transgender woman is the noodle.  For some reason, they get turned on by a woman with a sweet surprise.  One person particularly told me that the noodle doesn’t lie.  He really likes how it erects which reflects that we are not faking it and we’re really turned on.  I guess it’s a mental thing just like how I’m turned on by hairy brutes.

Added to that, they don’t like to make love with gay men though so again, it’s not only about the noodle.  It’s more complicated than that.

Suffice to say, a pretty girl with a burrito or you can just look up Futanari on Google Images. To be honest, I really don’t mind if they want me because of that. We all have sensual preferences.

Cisgender women broke their Hearts

Just to be clear, this didn’t come from me.

Some men experienced having their hearts badly broken by cisgender women so dating transgender women piqued their interest.  I don’t know if I’m insulted because it makes me feel like a 2nd option but this is their truth.

Personally, I don’t think that I’d date someone who only sees me as a 2nd option.  I prefer the first guy who likes the noodle. You don’t have to force yourself to watch another adult film category just because the other broke your heart. Get back in the game and find the right girl for you.

In the Closet

I’ve also dated gay men in the closet.  They told me that they want to try it with men but want to take it slow so I’m like a layover.
I don’t mind because some of them were awfully cute.  We didn’t date seriously but I was a willing guinea pig.  Sometimes, we do stupid things for the sake of a good Peen.

Don’t care about Genitals

These men are my personal favorite.  They just see the woman that I am and they don’t reduce me to being JUST a transgender date.

They have a bigger view of the world and they don’t look at minuscule things that don’t even make up ¼ of my body.

Not because they are my favorite means I wouldn’t date the other 3.

How about you?  What’s your reason for dating transgender women?  Feel free write a comment below.



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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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  1. I’m in love with my girl because she is beautiful, smart and we share a lot of the same interests. I don’t care about the genitals. I’m in love with my girl for her as a person not what she got <3

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