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How to have a lasting relationship

Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
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I’ve been listening to Forever by Mariah Carey repeatedly and it greatly inspired me to write an article on how to possibly achieve forever with your transgender date.

Forever is a very assuming and brave word to predict a relationship’s outcome as we all know that it’s something that’s more volatile than the stock market and weather combined.  However, I’m a firm believer that there’s such a kind of love wherein it can only be shared by 2 souls and no other.  Suffice to say, I believe in soulmates and as a transgender woman like myself who’s never imagined men would take me seriously because society from time and time again has told me that I’m not worthy, my beautiful soul still managed to flourish and attract mates.

Before this turns too dramatic, let’s continue on with how you can turn your transgender date to your forever soulmate.

Make her Happy

I’ve always believed that if you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.  A happy transgender woman is someone who won’t be thinking twice about staying in a relationship.  Laughter is unfailing and will surely be something to look forward to in a relationship.

Remember that funny friend who always makes you laugh and you always want as company?  The same can be applied to a partner who’s there to make you ever-so-happy even through thick and thin.  Always update your jokes and don’t be afraid to unleash the funny-man in you.

Keep her Besotted

Turning your transgender date into your girlfriend is just the first step.  You have to stay consistent in being a partner if you want a lasting relationship.  Always remember that even marriages can be broken with signatures so don’t be overconfident in keeping your partner just because she agreed to become a label for you.

If you need a guide on how to make her stay, ask her why she fell in love with you.  Once she gives you a list of as to why, maintain that or better yet, exceed that list so she has absolutely no reason to look elsewhere.  However, please know that if the bitch wants to cheat for whatever god damn reason, she will but we’re talking about your soulmate here lol.

Penetrate Her

Finally, to something deeper both literally and figuratively.  You have to learn how to touch her body and her soul at the same time.  Not just touch, but penetrate.  If she sees you beyond the surface and that you’re not just a piercing penis who can satisfy her through the lonely nights and that you’re actually going to be there for her unconditionally, I’m very sure that there’s nowhere she’d rather be but in your arms.

I don’t know how to explain it in simple words and I don’t want to sound delusional or crazy but it’s like the wind, you can not see it but you definitely feel it.  If you have a good relationship with your family, it’s something similar when you find your soulmate.  You’re always secure and you know that even if you fall many times in life, you have a safety net and that is their… love.

Good luck



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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz
Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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