{"id":534,"date":"2019-08-23T10:40:02","date_gmt":"2019-08-23T10:40:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mytranssexualdate.com\/blog\/?p=534"},"modified":"2023-02-24T09:57:47","modified_gmt":"2023-02-24T09:57:47","slug":"denying-that-i-am-a-pre-op-transgender-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/2019\/08\/denying-that-i-am-a-pre-op-transgender-woman","title":{"rendered":"Denying that I am a pre-op trans woman"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Today, we\u2019re going to talk about terminologies that are <strong>commonly associated with trans people<\/strong>, specifically trans women (with a bonus of my s*x life<strong>)<\/strong>. I\u2019m going to save you from further confusion about which term appropriately constitutes what.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Transgender, Pre-op, Post-op, Non-op Meaning<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Before we start talking about why I denied the truth about me, being <strong>a male to female pre-op transgender woman<\/strong>, you first have to know the meaning of the words that revolve around this 3-hit combo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Pre-op, post-op, non-op trans women? \ud83c\udff3\ufe0f\u200d\u26a7\ufe0f\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tC7R3oa4u3M?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Transgender is a huge umbrella term <strong>for trans-oriented people<\/strong>. There are more than 10 terms when it comes to classifying transgender people. It\u2019s best for you to have a better understanding if you\u2019re planning to date one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What\u2019s a Non-Op Transgender Woman ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">A <strong>Non-Op Transgender Woman<\/strong> is somebody who has no plans in getting a <a class=\"ek-link\" href=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/what-to-expect-from-a-transgender-surgery\/\">gender reassignment surgery<\/a> or gender confirmation surgery done at all. They don\u2019t equate with being cross dressers. She may be taking hormones and have had a breast augmentation surgery already, or nothing at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Some Common Misconceptions<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">There are a lot of <strong>non-op transwomen<\/strong> in the world of trans dating. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">However, most of what you\u2019ll see who are labeled with this isn\u2019t accurate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Some get confused with its true meaning. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"721\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/woman-2153038_1280-edited.jpg\" alt=\"transgender women thinking\" class=\"wp-image-3261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/woman-2153038_1280-edited.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/woman-2153038_1280-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/woman-2153038_1280-edited-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/woman-2153038_1280-edited-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Some girls who are planning to get <em>p*ssyfied<\/em> are using it because they take the literal term <strong>\u201cnon-op\u201d (having no kind of operation at all)<\/strong> to describe themselves in their profiles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">You can have cup-z <em>tiddies <\/em>and a badonkadonk that\u2019s manufactured in a lab somewhere in South America. But <strong>you\u2019re still non-op<\/strong> if you\u2019re not planning to get a vagina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m not saying that the womanhood of <strong>post-op transwomen<\/strong> is more valid. Even if I take hormones regularly and already had some adjustments here and there, I still have a pen*s (or <em>benis<\/em>, depending on the region of the guy that you\u2019re talking to lol).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Vagina simply can\u2019t make one a Woman<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">As a <strong>non-op transwoman<\/strong>, I can confidently say that I\u2019m more woman than a lot of <strong>post-ops<\/strong> who I know personally. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Some of them still talk, act, and have mannerisms of a gay man and they\u2019re clocked easier than I am.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/simply-a-woman-edited.jpg\" alt=\"transwoman\" class=\"wp-image-4992\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/simply-a-woman-edited.jpg 900w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/simply-a-woman-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/simply-a-woman-edited-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Added to that, <strong>transmen exist<\/strong> and most of them have vaginas so obviously, genitals are not telling of one\u2019s gender.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Ladies, enjoy your eggplants. Being a woman with a vagina is fabulous and <strong>being a woman with a pen*s is iconic<\/strong>. Just like what Shakira said in the Superbowl\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNo Fighting !\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is a Pre-Op Transgender Woman ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">A <strong>pre-op transgender woman<\/strong> is someone who:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>may or may not be taking medication (<a href=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/what-is-transgender-hormone-replacement-therapy\/\">hormone replacement therapy<\/a>)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>may or may not be planning to undergo an orchiectomy or gender reassignment surgery.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"721\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/model-2890211_1280-edited.jpg\" alt=\"Pre-Op Transgender Woman\" class=\"wp-image-3267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/model-2890211_1280-edited.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/model-2890211_1280-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/model-2890211_1280-edited-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/model-2890211_1280-edited-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I know, it\u2019s confusing. Suffice to say, she\u2019s the kind of transwoman who\u2019s <strong>living her life as a woman full-time<\/strong>, but has or hasn\u2019t undergone any kind of surgery. She\u2019s out in the open as a woman 24\/7 and she doesn\u2019t have a window on her schedule wherein she only gets to live her life as a woman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is a Pre-Op Trans Woman ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">If you see somebody who has this listed in her profile:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>she\u2019s 100% planning to undergo gender reassignment surgery.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>She may also be in a queue as a transgender patient in a gender confirmation surgery as we speak.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In some cases, she has also taken <strong>1 step closer to her goal<\/strong> which is orchiectomy (removal of the testes).<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"721\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/girl-2431995_1280-edited.jpg\" alt=\"Pre-Op Transsexual Woman\" class=\"wp-image-3269\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/girl-2431995_1280-edited.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/girl-2431995_1280-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/girl-2431995_1280-edited-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/girl-2431995_1280-edited-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">She\u2019s not planning to keep her pen*s for anyone. She wants to live her life with the <strong>dream of cunnilingus<\/strong> at the palm of her hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">By the way, she\u2019s not going to enjoy <strong>talks about her pen*s<\/strong> and the other kinks that you have so don\u2019t even try it with her.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What is a Post-Op Transgender Woman ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">A <strong>post-op transgender<\/strong> \/ trans woman is somebody who\u2019ve already undergone a gender reassignment surgery. She\u2019s Catwoman, hear her roar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Sometimes, transwomen who\u2019ve undergone orchiectomy prefer to be addressed as <strong>post-op<\/strong> as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/fashion-04-edited.jpg\" alt=\"Post-Op Transgender Woman\" class=\"wp-image-4997\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/fashion-04-edited.jpg 900w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/fashion-04-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/fashion-04-edited-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">If you won\u2019t want to offend anyone in a <a href=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/\" class=\"ek-link\">transgender dating website<\/a>, you should just address her as a woman or a transwoman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Let her unravel the talks of genitalia by herself. I know how imperative it is for men to know this type of thing right off the bat. You can always practice perfect timing;<strong> not too soon, not too late<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>[[SIGNUP]]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why I pretended to be a Post-Op Transwoman and Denied being pre-op.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Lying is a bad idea most of the time. But sometimes, I find it as a safe action to resort to when I need to buy time for various instances such as\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8 Years Ago<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Well, this guy that I really like and had s*x with (from \u201cbehind\u201d) doesn\u2019t know that I\u2019m still a <strong>pre-op transgender<\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">He is a former schoolmate and I had a s*xual experience with him around 8 years ago.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How do I know that he doesn\u2019t <strong>have a problem with this kind of s*x<\/strong> ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1047\" height=\"589\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/Couple_in_park-edited.jpg\" alt=\"couple in the park\" class=\"wp-image-3273\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/Couple_in_park-edited.jpg 1047w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/Couple_in_park-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/Couple_in_park-edited-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/Couple_in_park-edited-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1047px) 100vw, 1047px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">We did two rounds and he didn\u2019t want to leave my apartment. I even had to kick him out because he was still in college at that time, I didn\u2019t want him skipping school lol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Right after the s*x, he was adamant about getting to know me better. But I was at the point of my life when I was switching between daddies (<strong>old \u201chustling\u201c days<\/strong>) and he was like for side entertainment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">He is a Neovagina Addict<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Looking back at our exchange of messages on Facebook, he always seemed excited in telling me stories about the <strong>post-op transgender women<\/strong> that he had s*x with; how he thoroughly enjoyed entering the <strong>neovagina<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">So much so that he asked me to promise him that he\u2019d be the first one to enter mine post surgery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"507\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/chatting.jpg\" alt=\"chatting\" class=\"wp-image-4994\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/chatting.jpg 900w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/chatting-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/02\/chatting-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Little did he know,<strong> I stopped the original plan<\/strong> of getting a gender reassignment surgery after getting my breasts done<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Fast forward to years later\u2026 he wanted to know how I was doing and asked me if I got a s*x change operation yet. I told this guy that I\u2019m happily a post-op now and <strong>he\u2019s VERY curious<\/strong> to see it. He added that he wants to be the first to try the non-existent \u201cit\u201d lol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why did I lie?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Ugh, this would\u2019ve been so much easier if I met him through a transgender dating site. We didn\u2019t really see each other anymore after that <strong>particular s*xual encounter<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Dilemma<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">We still chat from time to time but recently\u2026 he had <strong>a SERIOUS glow-up !<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">He was already very handsome, to begin with, but this time, his dad died and he inherited a STEEL BUSINESS COMPANY.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"721\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/dilemma-edited.jpg\" alt=\"dilemma\" class=\"wp-image-3278\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/dilemma-edited.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/dilemma-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/dilemma-edited-1024x577.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/dilemma-edited-768x433.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Fast-forward to my dilemma, I kind of crushed his dream and told him that <strong>I got the surgery<\/strong> together when <strong>I had my breasts done<\/strong> and he will not be the first one anymore as I\u2019ve already been using it for the past few years lol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I know that he\u2019s annoyed because he didn\u2019t reply and has left me in the seen zone. I really like him but I am sure that I don\u2019t have a future with him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2 Main Reasons why I don\u2019t have a future with him<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>He\u2019s local, and let\u2019s be realistic, with a Catholic country like mine, there\u2019s nothing appealing of a future with regular back and forths with his religious kin.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Because he\u2019s <strong>more into vaginas<\/strong> and I am not planning to get one just because of him.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1280\" height=\"720\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/no-future-edited.jpg\" alt=\"no future\" class=\"wp-image-3280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/no-future-edited.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/no-future-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/no-future-edited-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2021\/03\/no-future-edited-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1280px) 100vw, 1280px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I\u2019m still unsure of what I want but I\u2019m leaning towards <strong>being non-op<\/strong>. My jobs require a lot of cerebral work and I\u2019m not going to risk the possibility of affecting my mental health.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">If he\u2019s still into me relationship-wise, he\u2019d be talking about different things with <strong>me other than the vagina.<\/strong> I\u2019m not sure if I will come clean to him because I think I think that I owe him that, but I\u2019m kind of ashamed at the same time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I know that I shouldn\u2019t be afraid of who I am and what I have but\u2026 I don\u2019t know, I\u2019m pretty sure I\u2019ll be getting a new crush next week so <strong>THAT is THAT<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Ahh, the joys of transgender dating, lol!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tell a man upfront if you still have a pen*s<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">When it comes to a casual conversation, it\u2019s never okay for somebody to ask <strong>what you have between your legs<\/strong>. However, when it comes to dating and relationships, you have to be more honest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I know that I\u2019ve already set a bad example for you ladies so take it from me. Look at my current dilemma, I can\u2019t even <strong>have s*x with my crush<\/strong> because of my own neurotic thoughts that he might reject me.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/03\/transsexual-discussion-edited.jpg\" alt=\"trans discussion\" class=\"wp-image-5175\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/03\/transsexual-discussion-edited.jpg 900w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/03\/transsexual-discussion-edited-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mytransgenderdate.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2022\/03\/transsexual-discussion-edited-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Probably, he\u2019ll still have s*x with me. Let\u2019s be honest, he hit it twice in 1 night and didn\u2019t want to go home. That\u2019s very telling of how I\u2019m able to make his little version happy. However, I\u2019ve already <strong>made the situation unnecessarily convoluted<\/strong> just because I didn\u2019t want to be honest with myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Don\u2019t worry, I\u2019m going to tell him someday, now\u2019s just not the perfect timing. Besides, how am I ever going to be able to preface that type of conversation ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">\u201cHey, it\u2019s me, here\u2019s my D!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">I know that I\u2019m laughing about it now but I seriously have to sort out this mess soon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Have you ever lied about being a post-op trans woman ?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">In my country, most people have this notion that <strong>if you call yourself transgender<\/strong>, you already have a vagina.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">It\u2019s just so hard to explain to each and everyone about what <strong>the word transgender truly means<\/strong>. Besides, have you ever liked a guy and thought that there may be a better chance of him liking you back once he finds out that you have a vagina ?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Yes, this is kind of dumb but admit it, it happens! Tell me more about you ladies. I\u2019m hoping that we could start a conversation about this !<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-justify\">Leave a comment below.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>xx<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Amanda<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today, we\u2019re going to talk about terminologies that are commonly associated with trans people, specifically trans women (with a bonus of my s*x life). 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