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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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The Microchip Queen Lynn Conway

In the fast-paced evolution of technology, where innovation and progress reign supreme, certain individuals shine as beacons of inspiration and transformation. Among them is Lynn Conway, who stands as a remarkable figure, not only for her groundbreaking contributions to the world of computer science but also for her unwavering advocacy for transgender rights. Imagine a […]

Transgender Dancers You Must Follow

Get ready to be captivated by a community of extraordinary individuals who are not only setting the stage ablaze with their sensational moves but also breaking down barriers and redefining the world of dance.  We’re thrilled to introduce you to some of the most talented and trailblazing dancers who are shimmying, twirling, and pirouetting their […]

Toxic Things to Let Go of Before Dating Trans Women Online

When you’re ready to start dating trans women online, it’s important to leave behind certain mindsets and habits that could hold back a healthy connection. Sometimes, we may carry beliefs or expectations that aren’t helpful, especially when trying to build a respectful and caring relationship. Letting go of these toxic ideas allows you to approach […]

Transgender Voice Therapy and Training for Trans Women

There are plenty of reasons why some transgender women choose to undergo transgender voice therapy. Some do it through surgery while others seek the help of non-invasive training. Please know that someone’s voice doesn’t determine their femininity. We’re not trying to perpetuate that misalignment. Many cisgender women have naturally lower voices than others. Choirs even […]

How to Create a Loving Relationship with a Trans Woman Online

Building a loving and inclusive relationship with a trans woman online requires empathy, understanding, and open communication. It’s about creating a space where she feels respected, valued, and accepted for who she is, while also cultivating mutual trust and emotional connection. Whether you’re new to dating trans women or simply want to strengthen your relationship, […]

Gender Discrimination is still Prevalent

As prevalent as the inclusion of trans and other gender identities are in mainstream media, so is gender discrimination. This indignant reality is omnipresent and the only way to eradicate it is through accurate and consistent education. That’s why we’ve created this guide today and made sure that this piece would be easily digestible. Now, […]

What Really Matters in Transgender Dating Online

Building a strong and meaningful relationship in transgender dating goes beyond appearances and surface-level attraction. It’s about fostering mutual respect, understanding, and connection between two people who value each other as individuals. Whether you’re a man exploring a relationship with a transgender woman or a transgender woman seeking someone who truly appreciates you, knowing what […]

What are Sissies and are they Transgender?

In our ever-evolving understanding of gender and sexuality, it’s essential to approach the subject with both curiosity and compassion. Over the years, a plethora of terms and identities have emerged, each representing a facet of the vast spectrum of human experience. Among these terms is “sissy,” which has been historically used in a variety of […]

Why Men Are Scared to Date Transgender Women Publicly

Dating openly can be a big step for anyone, but for some men dating transgender women, there are unique fears that may hold them back from being fully public about the relationship. These hesitations don’t always reflect how they feel about their partner; often, they stem from social pressures, personal insecurities, or a lack of […]