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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Why Men Are Scared to Date Transgender Women Publicly

Dating openly can be a big step for anyone, but for some men dating transgender women, there are unique fears that may hold them back from being fully public about the relationship. These hesitations don’t always reflect how they feel about their partner; often, they stem from social pressures, personal insecurities, or a lack of […]

Compelling Transgender Documentary Films To Watch

Wanting to learn something new or looking for something to help educate people about transgender people? No matter what the reason is, we’ve got you covered. Today, we’re going to share the most compelling transgender documentaries to watch. The best of all is that you can find all of these for free online. Please know […]

Funny Jokes that Work On Trans Dating Sites

When it comes to online dating, humor is one of the best ways to break the ice and make a memorable first impression. A good joke can lighten the mood, show off your personality, and let her know you’re approachable and fun to talk to. On trans dating sites, it’s important to be mindful of […]

How to Identify Financial Vultures on a Trans Dating Site

In the world of online dating, especially on trans dating sites, it’s important to stay vigilant. Unfortunately, not everyone has genuine intentions—some may be more interested in your wallet than your heart. These “financial vultures” can appear charming and sincere, but their ultimate goal is to exploit your generosity. In this guide, we’ll explore how […]

Gender Expression VS Gender Identity, The Nuances

Gender identity and gender expression are two concepts that are often confused or used interchangeably, but they are distinct and separate aspects of an individual’s identity. Gender identity refers to a person’s inner sense of being female, male, a combination of both, or neither. It is a deeply felt and inherent aspect of a person’s […]

Why Some Trans Women Gave Up on Online Dating Sites

From feeling fetishized to dealing with ghosting and disrespect, some trans women have grown disillusioned with the online dating scene altogether. As a man looking for a trans girlfriend, it’s important to understand why some trans women have given up on these platforms and learn how you can make a difference. Here are some common […]

Māhu – The Meaning Behind the Hawaiian Gender

Māhu is a special term from Hawaii that helps people be who they truly are. In Hawaii, some people feel like both men and women or act in ways that don’t match what’s expected. They call these folks “Māhū,” and they’ve been important in Hawaiian communities for a long time.  But it isn’t just a […]

How to Handle Disagreements when Dating Transgender Women Online

Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship, including those that begin online. When dating transgender women online, it’s important to approach conflicts with respect, understanding, and care. How you handle these disagreements can make a big difference in building a strong and healthy connection. Here are some actionable tips to help you navigate disagreements […]

The Rise of Dylan Mulvaney

Dylan Mulvaney is a rising star in the entertainment industry, known for her captivating performances and unapologetic activism. She is also a proud and outspoken transgender woman, using her platform to raise awareness about the challenges and discrimination faced by the trans community. Through her talent, passion, and unwavering commitment to making a difference, Dylan […]

Vices That May Turn Off Trans Women in Online Dating Sites

When it comes to online dating, first impressions matter—especially when you’re trying to connect with trans women who are looking for meaningful relationships. While everyone has their quirks, there are certain habits or vices that can be major turn-offs, making it harder to build a lasting connection. If you’re genuinely interested in finding love and […]