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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Coming Out as a Trans-oriented Couple

Coming out as a couple is a big step. It’s about sharing who you are and who you love with the world. But it’s not always easy. You want to make sure you and your partner are safe and respected. This guide is all about helping you do just that. We’ll talk about finding the […]

Emoji Etiquette on Transgender Dating

Welcome to the world of trans online dating, where a single emoji can speak a thousand words! Emojis are more than just fun pictures – they’re a powerful tool for connection, expression, and flirting. But wait, before you start sending off heart eyes and winks, let’s talk emoji etiquette. Get ready to amp up your […]

Rikkie Valerie Kollé – Inspiring Trans Women Worldwide

Rikkie Valerie Kollé is a Dutch model and beauty queen who made history. She became the first openly transgender woman to win Miss Nederland in 2023. This groundbreaking achievement marks a milestone in the pageant’s 94-year history. It also paves the way for greater inclusivity and representation in the beauty industry. Early Life and Background […]

10 Impossible Expectations of Men when Dating Trans Women

Often, men enter trans-oriented relationships with a set of expectations shaped by societal norms and personal misconceptions. It’s crucial to recognize these expectations and reframe them to foster healthier, more respectful relationships. Here, we’ll delve into the first four of ten common yet unrealistic expectations that men might hold when dating transgender women. More importantly, […]

What to Include in Your Dating Profile Bio as a Trans Woman

Your dating profile bio is your first chance to make a lasting impression—it’s where you showcase your personality, confidence, and what makes you you! As a transgender woman, crafting the perfect bio can feel like a balancing act between being authentic, setting expectations, and attracting the right people. But don’t stress! The key is to […]

Midori Monét’s Transcendent Journey as a Trans Beauty Queen

Midori Monét first turned heads as Tiana “Midori” Monet in Seattle’s inclusive ballroom circuit, where artistry meets community and every performance is a celebration. In 2023, she auditioned for Miss Washington USA and made it to the Top 6. Even though she didn’t take home the crown, competing alongside cis women gave her clarity—she belonged. […]

Engaging Opening Lines for Men Dating Transgender Women Online

For men navigating the world of transgender dating websites, this initial message holds the potential to ignite conversations that lead to genuine connections, heartfelt conversations, and even lasting love. While the journey of finding love is unique for each individual, the principles of meaningful engagement remain universal. In this guide, we delve into the art […]