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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Top 11 Black Trans Women to Follow in 2026

Black trans women have always been at the frontlines of activism, culture, and visibility—even when society refused to acknowledge their contributions. Their courage has pushed forward LGBTQ+ rights and transformed global conversations on gender, race, and identity. 1. Laverne Cox When discussing black trans women who changed the cultural landscape, Laverne Cox stands at the […]

8 Healthy Habits of Single Trans Women Looking for Love

Embarking on the journey of love and companionship as a single transgender woman can be both exhilarating and challenging, especially in the digital world of online dating. For those using trans-specific dating websites like My Transgender Date, where openness about one’s identity is embraced, there’s a unique opportunity to foster genuine connections. To thrive in […]

10 Actionable Ways to Pleasure Your Non-Op Trans Partner

If you’re in a relationship with a non-op trans woman, you’ve got a unique opportunity to build a bond that’s both fulfilling and sensitive to her needs. In this guide, we’re going to explore 10 actionable ways to enhance intimacy and pleasure in your relationship. These tips are all about creating a safe, loving, and […]

Vivienne Ming – From Homelessness to AI Visionary

Vivienne Ming is a theoretical neuroscientist, AI researcher, entrepreneur, and public thinker who keeps returning to one deceptively simple mission. That’s to use technology towards maximizing human potential. A transgender woman who reached her scientific stride by an unconventional route, she tackles big social problems: and then prototypes pragmatic tools to nudge outcomes in a […]

What to Do When You Feel Invisible on a Transgender Dating Site

You’ve made your profile, uploaded your best photos, and started swiping with hope in your heart—but nothing’s happening. No messages. No likes. No real connections. It’s hard not to take it personally, and you start to wonder, “Is something wrong with me?” If you’ve ever felt invisible on a transgender dating site, you’re not alone. […]

Lessons Trans Women should teach Men they’re Dating Online

In the intricate tapestry of online dating, where hearts connect through screens and conversations transcend digital boundaries, lies an opportunity for profound learning and growth. In My Transgender Date, lessons are exchanged, stories unfold, and bridges are built. Let’s explore the valuable lessons that transgender women can teach the men they’re dating online, as these […]

Dorce Gamalama – Indonesia’s Transgender Pride

Dorce Gamalama was a beloved Indonesian entertainer, singer, actress, and TV host from Indonesia. She became famous for her versatile talents and charismatic personality. She was also a pioneer for transgender rights in Indonesia, openly transitioning and advocating for the LGBTQ+ community. Her work in entertainment and her activism left a lasting impact on many […]

Julia Serano – From Biologist to Trans Feminist Trailblazer

Julia Serano is a writer, biologist, performer, and one of the most influential voices in gender discussions today. Her journey from science labs to stages and book tours is a reflection of her unique ability to blend academic knowledge with personal experience.  Serano’s story is not just about being transgender—it’s about her pursuit of knowledge, […]