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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Why Some Trans Women Gave Up on Online Dating Sites

From feeling fetishized to dealing with ghosting and disrespect, some trans women have grown disillusioned with the online dating scene altogether. As a man looking for a trans girlfriend, it’s important to understand why some trans women have given up on these platforms and learn how you can make a difference. Here are some common […]

Māhu – The Meaning Behind the Hawaiian Gender

Māhu is a special term from Hawaii that helps people be who they truly are. In Hawaii, some people feel like both men and women or act in ways that don’t match what’s expected. They call these folks “Māhū,” and they’ve been important in Hawaiian communities for a long time.  But it isn’t just a […]

How to Handle Disagreements when Dating Transgender Women Online

Disagreements are a natural part of any relationship, including those that begin online. When dating transgender women online, it’s important to approach conflicts with respect, understanding, and care. How you handle these disagreements can make a big difference in building a strong and healthy connection. Here are some actionable tips to help you navigate disagreements […]

The Rise of Dylan Mulvaney

Dylan Mulvaney is a rising star in the entertainment industry, known for her captivating performances and unapologetic activism. She is also a proud and outspoken transgender woman, using her platform to raise awareness about the challenges and discrimination faced by the trans community. Through her talent, passion, and unwavering commitment to making a difference, Dylan […]

Vices That May Turn Off Trans Women in Online Dating Sites

When it comes to online dating, first impressions matter—especially when you’re trying to connect with trans women who are looking for meaningful relationships. While everyone has their quirks, there are certain habits or vices that can be major turn-offs, making it harder to build a lasting connection. If you’re genuinely interested in finding love and […]

Gender Fluid – A Nonbinary View of Genders and More

Have you ever thought about how we understand gender? For many of us, gender seems straightforward, but it’s not the same for everyone. Let’s talk about gender fluidity. This is different from being transgender, and it’s important to know the difference. Gender fluid people often change how they feel about their gender. Sometimes they might […]

How Yasmin Lee Surprised Hollywood and The World

Yasmin Lee is a true trailblazer, breaking barriers and making waves in both the adult entertainment world and mainstream movies. Known for her standout role in “The Hangover Part II,” Yasmin has captivated audiences with her talent and charisma. But her influence goes beyond the screen; as a transgender woman, she has become a powerful […]

Top Pick-up Lines to Use on Trans Dating Sites

Being on a trans dating site can feel like trying to find the perfect GIF—you’re looking for something that’s clever, charming, and just the right amount of flirty. But don’t worry, we’ve got your back! Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie in the trans dating scene, having a few top-notch pick-up lines in […]