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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Gender Fluid – A Nonbinary View of Genders and More

Have you ever thought about how we understand gender? For many of us, gender seems straightforward, but it’s not the same for everyone. Let’s talk about gender fluidity. This is different from being transgender, and it’s important to know the difference. Gender fluid people often change how they feel about their gender. Sometimes they might […]

How Yasmin Lee Surprised Hollywood and The World

Yasmin Lee is a true trailblazer, breaking barriers and making waves in both the adult entertainment world and mainstream movies. Known for her standout role in “The Hangover Part II,” Yasmin has captivated audiences with her talent and charisma. But her influence goes beyond the screen; as a transgender woman, she has become a powerful […]

Top Pick-up Lines to Use on Trans Dating Sites

Being on a trans dating site can feel like trying to find the perfect GIF—you’re looking for something that’s clever, charming, and just the right amount of flirty. But don’t worry, we’ve got your back! Whether you’re a seasoned pro or a newbie in the trans dating scene, having a few top-notch pick-up lines in […]

Phyllis Frye – A Pioneer in the Transgender Community

Phyllis Frye is a true pioneer in the fight for transgender rights. Born in San Antonio, Texas, she faced many challenges growing up and throughout her career. Despite this, she became the first openly transgender judge in the United States and has dedicated her life to advocating for the LGBTQ+ community. Her journey from military […]

Double-edged Statements to Tell Trans Women While Dating Online

When you’re dating online, especially on trans dating sites, the way you communicate can make a huge difference. Sometimes, even well-intended comments can have a double meaning, leaving the person you’re interested in feeling misunderstood or uncomfortable.  These “double-edged” statements can either come off as respectful and genuine or unintentionally hurtful, depending on how they’re […]

How To Reassure a Trans Woman That You’re Not A Chaser

Navigating relationships can be complex, and when you’re getting to know a trans woman, it’s crucial to make sure she feels safe and respected. There’s a term that often comes up in the trans community – “chaser.” This refers to someone who is overly fixated on a person’s transgender status. If you genuinely like someone […]

BB Gandanghari – From Leading Man to Leading Lady

BB Gandanghari is a celebrated Filipino actress, model, and transgender advocate. Known initially as a matinee idol in the Philippine entertainment industry, her courageous decision to come out as a transgender woman in 2009 marked a significant turning point in her life and career. Her transition has not only redefined her personal identity but also […]

Emotionally Draining Topics for Transgender Women You Must Avoid

Navigating the world as a transgender woman is filled with unique challenges and experiences. Some topics can be like heavy emotional weights, making the journey even more challenging. If you’re getting to know someone online, avoiding these topics will help emotional triggers—giving you a lighter ambiance to get to know each other better. Today, let’s […]