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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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Phyllis Frye – A Pioneer in the Transgender Community

Phyllis Frye is a true pioneer in the fight for transgender rights. Born in San Antonio, Texas, she faced many challenges growing up and throughout her career. Despite this, she became the first openly transgender judge in the United States and has dedicated her life to advocating for the LGBTQ+ community. Her journey from military […]

Double-edged Statements to Tell Trans Women While Dating Online

When you’re dating online, especially on trans dating sites, the way you communicate can make a huge difference. Sometimes, even well-intended comments can have a double meaning, leaving the person you’re interested in feeling misunderstood or uncomfortable.  These “double-edged” statements can either come off as respectful and genuine or unintentionally hurtful, depending on how they’re […]

How To Reassure a Trans Woman That You’re Not A Chaser

Navigating relationships can be complex, and when you’re getting to know a trans woman, it’s crucial to make sure she feels safe and respected. There’s a term that often comes up in the trans community – “chaser.” This refers to someone who is overly fixated on a person’s transgender status. If you genuinely like someone […]

BB Gandanghari – From Leading Man to Leading Lady

BB Gandanghari is a celebrated Filipino actress, model, and transgender advocate. Known initially as a matinee idol in the Philippine entertainment industry, her courageous decision to come out as a transgender woman in 2009 marked a significant turning point in her life and career. Her transition has not only redefined her personal identity but also […]

Emotionally Draining Topics for Transgender Women You Must Avoid

Navigating the world as a transgender woman is filled with unique challenges and experiences. Some topics can be like heavy emotional weights, making the journey even more challenging. If you’re getting to know someone online, avoiding these topics will help emotional triggers—giving you a lighter ambiance to get to know each other better. Today, let’s […]

Nguyen Huong Giang – A Transgender Beauty from Vietnam

From her early days as a contestant on Vietnam Idol to her emergence as a celebrated global icon, Huong Giang’s journey shows that perseverance is key along with the importance of self-acceptance to achieve one’s goals. Her rise to fame and subsequent advocacy work have shattered stereotypes and opened doors for countless individuals who face […]

How to Build Trust When Dating Transgender Women Online

When dating transgender women, building trust is crucial. Trust forms the foundation of any strong relationship. Here are simple and effective ways to build trust when dating transgender women online. Follow these tips to create a genuine connection and build a lasting relationship. Be Honest and Open About Your Intentions and Expectations from the Start […]

Laxmi Narayan Tripathi’s Brave Battle

Laxmi Narayan Tripathi stands as a prominent figure in the fight for transgender rights, known for her unwavering advocacy, impactful presence in media, and significant contributions to the LGBTQ+ community. As the first transgender person from Asia Pacific to speak at the United Nations in 2008, Laxmi has broken barriers and paved the way for […]

The Benefits of Joining Trans-specific Dating Platforms like My Transgender Date

Joining a dating platform can be exciting yet challenging, especially for transgender individuals seeking genuine connections. Mainstream dating sites might not always offer the understanding and inclusivity needed. This is where trans-specific dating platforms, like My Transgender Date, come in. These specialized platforms provide a supportive environment where transgender people can connect with others who […]