How to get my Ex back

If you’re asking yourself this question, keep it to yourself and keep reading. Your friends may just get fired up if you ask them how to get your ex back. Dealing with a conundrum can be very confusing. You must ensure that your feelings are in check before taking action.

How You Feel

Don’t take the first step without assessing how you feel. Sometimes, a mix of emotions can just lead to such a thought.

Lonely

Feeling alone can be crippling most especially if you just got out of a breakup. But most of the time, the only salvation for this is through yourself. You have to figure out how to be less lonely on your own.

Make up for the lost time and focus on yourself. Most especially if you had a life of your own before your last relationship. Remember your goals and hit every milestone possible.

If that does not keep you busy, communicate more with your family and friends. That’s what they’re there for. Doing so will not only help you forget about your ex, but it will also remind you that there are bigger problems in the world and your wallowing doesn’t make any sense.

Reminiscent

If you are thinking of getting back with your ex just because you constantly remember the good times, stop. How about… remembering the bad times? Remind yourself as to why the relationship did not work and ask yourself if you’re ready to experience those again.

Memories must serve as lessons and something to look back at to cheer you up. They should not encourage you to do something out on a whim. If you have not moved on from your ex, it’s probably because you’re still holding on to these memories.

Why not think of the future and appreciate that you can make a new set of memories that will hopefully last?

You Miss Them

Be very precise with this. What do you miss exactly?

• lips
• touch
• body
• smell

If it’s only the physical aspects that you miss, it’s not enough reason to consider getting back with your ex. There must be a very good reason for you to fuel the fire again and this usually includes realizations, apology, and compromise.

How To Get Them Back

Before doing anything from this list, you must acknowledge the fact that your ex may not want anything to do with you anymore. You will probably be rejected and you should be strong enough to take it. This is especially applicable if the breakup was bad.

Quick and Consequential

If you’re the one who broke up with your ex, this may work. However, if they’re the one who said goodbye, expect that the outcome will be negative. This method works best with grand gestures. If you’re not ready to be romantic, you’ll fail.

1. Step One

The first thing that you can do is to apologize. You have to do this even if you have a firm belief that you didn’t do anything wrong. Doing so will make them feel less cautious about what you want from them. This will also give them an idea that you’re sincere.

2. Step Two

After that’s done, it’s time to woo them. If they like gifts, give them something that you know they’ll like. You may also serenade them or show up on their doorstep with a basket of flowers. No matter what you decide upon, it must be grand and hit the goal of making the other person feel VERY SPECIAL.

3. Step Three

Promise them that you will change and that you won’t make the same mistakes again. This is the sense of urgency that will make them truly convert.

Easing In With Ulterior Motive

This doesn’t mean that you’re a scheming and pernicious individual. Doing so will gain you higher chances of getting back with your ex. Pretend that you want to “stay friends” and you want to move on with your life.

This will make them comfortable to be in speaking terms with you because there are still “boundaries”. However, you must be ready to not show your true colors. If you commit to this setup, they might be telling stories about new people they’ll be dating. You don’t want them to realize that you’re green with envy now do you?

Apologetic and Desperate

If having dignity and self-worth are out of the question, this route is for you. There are many ways to be desperate. You may seduce them and harass them to get back with you. You may also write thousands of snail mails expressing your apology.

You may also ask them out and grovel on the floor. But remember, this will probably repel them more.

Should You Get Back?

Yes and No. The only way to determine if this is the right step for you is if you become very honest with yourself. Keep reading to know the answer and remember, don’t tweak your real feelings in doing so.

If you love them and they still love you

If you know in your heart that the love between the two of you is still alive, by all means, do it. There’s no point in fighting your feelings just because both of you committed mistakes. There’s no such thing as perfection.

Are the two of you willing to work on the relationship? Go ahead. Prove to others that love is sweeter the second time around.

You’ve realized how bad you were and are willing to change

Were your actions the cause of the breakup and you’re willing to change? Apologize now and make it better. But you have to know that not all wounds heal the same. If your ex is not ready but expressed that they still like you, give them time and show them that you’ve really changed.

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