Top 9 Conversation Starters

Nothing is as dull as dealing with someone who doesn’t know how to carry a conversation. This is why a lot of men get rejected right off the bat. If you want better chances of winning the trans woman of your dreams, you must learn how to keep up.

Today, you’re going to learn many conversation starters that will acquaint your journey in finding the one. Prepare your mental notepad and don’t miss an opportunity!

1. Semi-formal Greeting

If you’re the type of guy who’s often pedantic and formal, you don’t have to change yourself to get noticed. There’s nothing wrong with your personality but learning the art of the semi-formal greeting will get you a long way. Some of the samples here require only a bit of tweaking.

• A. Hello (insert the name of the lady), I’m (state your name) and your smile piqued my interest. Would you be comfortable getting to know each other?
• B. Hi (insert the name of the lady), I hope you’re doing well. I’m quite interested in getting to know you. Looking forward to your reply.
• C. Good day! I was positively distracted by your profile and I don’t want to miss the opportunity of getting to know you. I’m (state your name), I hope you reply.

The three samples are assertive but not overbearing. All perfect for men who don’t want to give an air of desperation.

2. Compliments

Most trans women in dating websites appreciate a good compliment; most especially if it’s genuine and not cliched. This is why you have to put a lot of thought when it comes to giving compliments. Yes, sometimes, they may fire back at you so below’s a list of good ones.

• A. Hi (insert the name of the lady), I can’t help but notice your smile. It’s too beautiful to pass up. Here’s hoping that you’ll reply 😊.
• B. Well hello there (insert the name of the lady). Those eyes are truly magnetizing. They’ve truly captivated me and now I can’t help myself but send you a greeting. Would you be interested in getting to know more about me other than my affection for your beautiful eyes?

3. Questions

If you truly want to sound out, you can’t do it by being generic. You must deliver something that’s not often heard by single trans women who are looking for love. Yes, sometimes, you have to maximize the capabilities of your imagination.

But don’t worry, we’ll provide you with some ideas to ask about. Remember, these are conversation starters. Don’t go too extra.

• A. Hello (insert the name of the lady), I wonder how someone beautiful as you could still be single?
• B. Hey (insert the name of the lady), I’m new to dating trans women and I’d like to know if I could ask for tips from you.

Because you didn’t make a simple statement and that she knows you’re waiting for her revert, she will be obliged to reply.

4. Funny Jokes

No matter which survey you read, most women will always be into funny men. If you don’t know that yet, you’re lost.

But now that you’re aware, it’s time to take action. When it comes to jokes, don’t hold back. Don’t just tickle her, your goal here is to make her want more!

5. Pick-up Lines

In connection with funny jokes, your goal here is to make her know that you appreciate her while making her laugh at the same time. Pick-up lines should be really cheesy. You have to make her feel amorous with you.

• A. Hello (insert the name of the lady), did it hurt when you fell from the sky?
• B. Hi (insert the name of the lady), do you have a map? Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
• C. I’m no photographer but I can picture us together.

Use one of those and we guarantee that you’ll make her smile.

6. Cultural Queries

Now, if you are extremely shy and you don’t want to be too obvious about how you feel, you must pretend like you’re only interested in knowing about her culture.

This will only work if you are from different countries. Things like the weather, the best time to go to their country, which places to visit, etc. are all very effective in starting a conversation.

If you are running out of questions about her country, start talking about the food! This topic is chock-full of variety that it’s almost impossible to run out of.

7. Needing love advice

For those who want to get instant TLC, you must open up and share your vulnerability. But many find this very hard most especially if they’re talking to strangers. But many women enjoy giving this type of advice and you’ll be surprised.

However, there’s also something called oversharing and you don’t want her to think that you’re doing such.

8. Familiarity

If you want to get her attention no matter what it takes, you must pique her interest. And one of the most effective ways in doing so is to tell her that she resembles someone very close to your life.

This will naturally make her feel mystified and want more. She will then continue communicating with you because she is interested in getting more information.

9. Profile Assessment

Lastly, one of the best ways to start a conversation is to talk about your assessment of her profile. This will require you to truly read and pay close attention to her photos.

If you do this, she will be flattered and will feel compelled to do the same. Many people who are on trans dating sites, most especially women, are looking for a life partner.

Letting her know that you’ve actually gone through the effort of getting to know her will make her feel special. Remember, there’s nothing wrong with following these tips, but you shouldn’t do so if you’re not genuinely interested in the person.

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