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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Just a random trans woman playing with makeup and skincare. Loves bacon and the operating table. I'm also the author of the dating guide book Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen. Know more ->

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Transgender Dating DON’Ts

Dos and don’ts are not just exclusive to transgender dating but I want to be more in-depth about the DON’Ts section of the lottery we all call dating. There are numerous factors as to why it’s seemingly, that when we try to get to know someone, things suddenly fall apart.  Consider dating as an investment […]

Perverts in Transgender Dating Sites

There are perverts everywhere but I want to be specific and try to help you on how to determine if the guy who’s been messaging you in a transgender dating website just wants to get off on your expense.  There’s nothing wrong about being s*xually in touch with yourself but if you’re a transgender who’s […]

Questions not to ask your TG Date

We were all once novices in the world of transgender dating. Today, I’ve enlisted some questions in random order that you should avoid asking on the first conversation if you want to proceed to the next level. Everyone’s individuality varies in enormous degrees but just know that the tips here are applicable in general as […]

How to ask your transgender girlfriend to move in

So your transgender date magically turned into your girlfriend. You want to seal the deal somehow and move on to the next level. There are a lot of joys when it comes to living in with your partner. As a transgender woman, my perspective is coming from a “wifely” role lol.  I thoroughly enjoyed being […]

How to Impress your Transgender Date

I know that it’s never good to brag but making an impression is vital if you want to snag your transgender date’s feelings. First of all, I want to congratulate you because you’ve reached the next level. Now that your transgender dream girl has said yes to going out with you, you need to keep […]

How to get noticed by your transgender crush

She’s currently your transgender crush but you want to turn her into your transgender date. Let it be known that you may have your ways with cisgender women but you can’t use the same tricks on a new playing field.  There are familiar similarities with dating in general but some scenarios are polarizing that you’d […]

Why do men date Transgender Women?

I don’t think that there’s a general explanation for one’s dating preference.  I’m just going to list the reasons that men told me why they date a transgender woman like me.  These reasons are solely from the perspective of the guys I’ve dated. If you are a man who likes dating transgender women, please know […]

Transsexual Dating Paradigm

I don’t think that there’s an exact model when it comes to transsexual dating.  Every dating situation is different but I’m going to enlist the most common relationships in dating websites for transsexual women.  Along with the list comes tips with how to make them work. PS: I am in no way an expert in […]

Transgender dating dynamics

I don’t think that there’s a black and white guide when it comes to transgender dating or dating in general. It’s just that when you’re trying to enter a world that’s been considered taboo, you need to be prepared. As a transgender woman, I’m not very strict in applying restrictions when getting to know men. […]