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Amanda Valentine Dela Cruz

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Amanda Valentine is a transgender woman who has written about trans topics for over 10 years for My Transgender Date. She is an author who made it on Amazon’s best-seller list by writing 5 books on trans women’s relationships. Her book “Dating Transgender Women for Gentlemen” peaked at #3 in the Transgender Studies category on Amazon. She started writing at the age of 10 and won a poetry contest in 4th grade which convinced her to pursue a career in literature. Her personal experiences as a transgender woman give her a unique perspective on trans topics.

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The Word Nibling Explained

Some types of evolution take hundreds of years to occur. However, one of the fastest and most vital evolutions that constantly take place in our lives is the evolution of words. Today, you’re going to learn about a new word and it’s called nibling, along with the importance as to why you should learn its […]

How to get your Boyfriend to Propose to You

Are you at the stage of your life whereby you’re done with the peculiarness that comes along with trans dating? Do you want to tie the knot?  Most women find it very hard to open up this type of feeling to their boyfriends because of the fear of being rejected. Added to that, a lot […]

Why He Says You’re “Suffocating” Him

If you want to succeed in trans dating or any type of dating, you must play by the rules. Unfortunately, only the best players come out victorious when it comes to the game of love. If you’re thinking that true love will happen no matter the lack of effort you’re putting, you’re probably still watching […]

The World AIDS Day Guide

Plenty of celebrations and commemorations are held every year. However, not all of them are about fun and games. Others need to be remembered annually because they help give awareness to situations that are encompassing the overall wellbeing of many individuals. If you want to erase the stigma and be educated about AIDS, keep reading. […]

What is a Conversion Therapy?

Conversion therapy has been on and off in the news. The controversy that comes along with it affects people from all walks of life. To people who are against the LGBTQ+ community, it’s a blessing. For LGBTQ+ individuals, it’s an attack and a curse. To scientists, it’s debunked and passe. However, it’s still better to […]

What is Transgender Day of Remembrance? (TDOR)

Transgender Day of Remembrance also known as TDOR is a memorial day for transgender people who’ve been killed by the means of transgender hatred or prejudice held every November. Albeit not all victims have identified to be trans-oriented, they have been killed based on bigots’ biases against transgender individuals.

The Beginner Trans Ally Guide

Everyone has experienced being a neophyte and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being one. Just your desire to be a trans ally alone is already a success and warrants a celebration. However, if you truly want to embody an ally and be more purposeful to transgender people, keep reading. This guide wasn’t created to attack […]

How to NOT be a Single Transgender Woman

Have you been a member of a trans dating site for a reasonable amount of time but you’re still a single transgender woman? Don’t worry, I’ve been single for 7 years and I’m going to share with you how I was able to break the curse. I’m assuming that you’re looking for a partner because […]

Planning a Transgender Wedding

Getting married is a common dream for most women whether they’re transgender or not. There are many types of weddings but today, we’re going to focus on how to plan a transgender wedding as a trans woman. Please know that this guide was not created to divide individuals of different genders and sexual orientations. This […]

The International Pronouns Day

Once again, the International Pronouns Day is upon us. If this is something new to you, stick around because in this guide, you will be informed about everything that encompasses this empowering and inclusive day. Whether you’re part of the LGTBQ+ community or not, it’s important for you to know why this day is celebrated.